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August 19th 2025 – Fruit of the Spirit – Part 7 of 9

We are on the 7th day of a 9-day journey to learn about all of the Fruit of the Spirit – the gifts of love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control that come from God.

Faith (faithfulness) – “O Lord, thou art my God; I will exalt thee, I will praise thy name; for thou hast done wonderful things; thy counsels of old are faithfulness and truth” (Isaiah 25:1). “I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith” (Ephesians 3:16-17).

It is increasingly difficult to find someone whose love or loyalty can be counted on. So many people are fickle and faithless. It’s sad to read the apostle Paul’s prophecy of wretched attitudes and habits “in the last days”  “For men will be lovers of themselves …blasphemers…unloving…slanderers…traitors…” (2 Timothy 3:1) He continues “The consequences to society are disastrous.” ( 2 Timothy 3:2-4)

Marriages and families are a major casualty. Fewer and fewer people are willing to make lifelong commitments. And a great many who do make wedding vows (even “before God”) later on break those vows in one way or another. When someone cheats on or deserts his or her mate, God says “you have dealt treacherously [with]…your companion by covenant” (Malachi 2:14-16) God hates these forms of unfaithfulness.

All good relationships are built on the foundation of faith and faithfulness, of mutual trust born out of trustworthiness. A good marriage is largely defined as a faithful wife and faithful husband. A good friend is a true friend or a faithful friend, not a “fair-weather friend,” but one who “loves at all times” (Proverbs 17:17) Paraphrased. A good employee is a trustedand dependable employee.

Although all people sometimes fail at faithfulness, we can always count on God. That is what enables us to have complete faith and trust in Him. It’s vital that we respond to the faithfulness of God the Father and Jesus Christ with deep and abiding faith, so that we will then give Them our very best—our utmost allegiance, fidelity, obedience and devotion.

Do you trust God completely? So much so that you live accordingly—to the point that He is able to trust you? When Jesus Christ returns, wouldn’t it be wonderful to hear Him say approvingly, “Well done, good and faithful servant”?

Prayer:

Heavenly Father, If I have been without faith to you or others, I ask that You would forgive me. Lord, You remain faithful to us regardless of how unfaithful we are. I thank You for this and ask that You would give me the strength to remain loyal to my family, friends and church. Use me to display Your faithfulness to a world that needs it. Thank You for Your steadfast love. Thank You that Your Word has stood the test of time and remains the source of truth and light for every situation in our lives. Please continue this work of opening my heart up to the amazing faithfulness of Your Bible. I pray this in Jesus’ name, Amen.

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July 30th 2025 – Strength In Forgiveness

“A final word: Be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power.” (Ephesians 6:10)

In Ephesians 5:22-6:9, God’s Word provides us with guidance on marriage, family, and work relationships. Every connection we cultivate—whether harmonious or challenging—involves imperfect people. When God calls us to submit to one another, He invites us to trust Him, recognizing that none of us are perfect. Jesus emphasizes the importance of extending forgiveness continually.

“Then Peter came to Him and said, ‘Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? Up to seven times?’ Jesus said to him, ‘I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven.'” (Matthew 18:21-22)

In the heat of relational challenges, God offers us the opportunity to believe and trust in His glorious promises of forgiveness and grace. It is through faith that we can envision healing in our relationships. When we face points of contention with disdain or a lack of forgiveness, we risk allowing worry and fear to take root. It’s crucial to anchor our focus in God’s eternal promises, especially in a world that often feels temporary and fleeting.

“Broken relationships can be healed.”
“As God offers us Forgiveness and Grace, so should we.”

Prayer:
Heavenly Father, grant me the strength to apply Your Word through Your Spirit in all my relationships. Help me to rise above the temporary frustrations and fix my gaze on the eternal truths. Thank You for Your forgiveness. I ask for the grace to forgive others, especially when painful memories resurface. Remind me to let go of the burdens of bitterness, as I trust in Your promise of freedom. In Jesus’ name, I pray, Amen.

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June 29th 2025 – Love and Forgiveness

“How fair and how pleasant you are, O love, with your delights!” (Song of Solomon 7:6)

In the beautiful narrative of Song of Solomon, we witness the passionate love between Solomon and his bride, alongside the reality of conflict. Intriguingly, their disputes seem to dissolve almost as quickly as they arise, not through mere tolerance, but through a rekindling of their passion and desire for one another. This prompts us to ponder, “How can couples navigate from conflict to affection so swiftly?” The answer lies in two vital biblical principles: forgiveness and love. When a marriage is built upon the active practice of forgiveness and genuine love, conflicts may arise, but they won’t linger.

So, how can we incorporate these principles into our own marriages? The answer may sound straightforward, yet it requires Christ at the center. To embody love and forgiveness, we must make a conscious choice to act lovingly and forgive wholeheartedly. Today, make the choice to forgive your spouse for any grievances, and to love them despite their imperfections. Embrace the love that Christ exemplifies—He loved us so deeply that He sacrificed Himself for us, even while we were still in our shortcomings. This is the essence of true love. Just as Jesus chose to forgive us completely, we too can cultivate a spirit of love and forgiveness in our relationships. By doing so, we equip ourselves to transition swiftly from pain to passion in our marriages.

“Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony.” (Colossians 3:12-14)

Prayer:

Heavenly Father, I recognize that living a life marked by continual forgiveness is impossible without a relationship with You. I thank You for the invaluable gift of salvation. Your boundless love and forgiveness have transformed my life, and I long to extend that same grace within my relationships. Fill me with Your Spirit and guide me through Your Word, empowering me to reflect the love of Jesus in my life. In Jesus’ name, I pray. Amen.

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Scriptural Seeds Ministries

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June 10th 2025 – When God Removes Someone From Your Life

“As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.” (Proverbs 27:17)

In our journey of faith, we often encounter seasons when God removes certain people from our lives. This can be a painful experience, especially when those individuals have played significant roles in our daily routines, friendships, or even our spiritual walk. However, it is essential to recognize that God’s plans for us are often beyond our understanding.

When God removes someone from our lives, it may feel like a loss, but it can also be an opportunity for growth and renewal. Just as iron sharpens iron, God desires to surround us with people who uplift us, encourage our faith, and help us grow into the individuals He created us to be. Sometimes, the relationships we hold onto can hinder our spiritual progress or lead us away from His purpose.

Take a moment to reflect on the relationships in your life. Are there people who are holding you back from your spiritual growth? Ask God to help you release any unhealthy attachments and to guide you toward relationships that align with His purpose for you.

Remember, God’s removal of certain individuals may be an act of love. Trust in His timing and His plan, knowing that He is always working for your good.

“Embrace the new paths He sets before you, and look forward to the people He will bring into your life to support and uplift you in your faith journey.”

Prayer:

Heavenly Father, thank You for the people You have placed in my life and for those You have removed. Help me to trust Your wisdom in all relationships. When I feel the sting of loss, remind me that You have a plan for my life that includes new connections and opportunities for growth. May I be open to the lessons You want to teach me during these transitions. Lead me to relationships that sharpen my faith and bring me closer to You. Amen.

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March 26th 2025 – Words Have Power

“I am the rose of Sharon, And the lily of the valleys.” (Song of Solomon 2:1)

What transforms a person’s perception of themselves? Could it truly be as simple as a few kind words? This was certainly the case for Solomon and his beloved. In the opening chapter of Song of Solomon, we find the Shulamite woman feeling downcast about her appearance, declaring, “Do not look at me, because I am dark, because the sun has tanned me.” Her worries stem from her hard work in the vineyards under the relentless sun, leaving her feeling less than beautiful. Yet, by chapter two, she refers to herself as a rose of Sharon—an image of beauty and grace. This remarkable shift in self-view is a direct result of the loving words and encouragement shared by Solomon.

It’s a powerful reminder of what God’s Word teaches us about the impact of our speech, as noted in the book of James:

“In the same way, the tongue is a small thing that makes grand speeches. But a tiny spark can set a great forest on fire.” (James 3:5)

The potential of our words is extraordinary. Too often, we forget their weight and inadvertently use them to wound rather than heal. God calls us to walk in grace, humility, and love. We should actively seek opportunities to uplift one another through our words—expressing gratitude, thanksgiving, and kindness. Husbands, speak words of love to your wives. Wives, offer encouragement and support to your husbands. In this cycle of nurturing words, you will cultivate a thriving, healthy relationship. Remember, our words hold immense power; let’s choose to wield them wisely.

“Our words are powerful tools that can either build people up or tear them down.”

Prayer:

Heavenly Father, thank You for the gift of relationships. Fill me with Your Spirit so I can speak words of love and encouragement to those around me—my spouse, children, and friends. Grant me the patience to love even when the love is not reciprocated, and the wisdom to know when to speak and when to remain silent. May my words bring healing and glorify You. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

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Rob Lavallee

Scriptural Seeds Ministries

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March 26th 2020 – Commitment

“And He, bearing His cross, went out to a place called the Place of a Skull, which is called in Hebrew, Golgotha, where they crucified Him, and two others with Him, one on either side, and Jesus in the center.” (John 19:17-18)

It is painful to consider what Jesus went through for us and to think about what He endured on our behalf. The remarkable truth I keep coming back to time and time again is that it was His decision. He decided to endure these things… the suffering, the beatings and the crucifixion. It is convicting because I know how little in comparison it has taken to rattle my endurance at times. I have never been beaten for Jesus much less crucified.

It comes down to each and every one of us making a commitment to Jesus. How far will you follow Jesus? Until it gets inconvenient, uncomfortable, or what about when it becomes painful? Are you willing to follow Him all the way? Let us follow our Jesus, who is so worthy, all the way until the end. Until we hear the words “Well done, good and faithful servant.” God bless you as you follow Jesus.

Prayer:

Heavenly Father,You have called me to a disciple’s life. I want to embrace that life, yet there are times when I look back. I am Your disciple. I will go where You lead me. Please help my faith I pray this in Jesus’ name, Amen.

Invitation:

Jesus Christ says, “Behold, I stand at the door and knock; if anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in to him” (Revelation 3:20)

The Bible promises eternal life to all who receive Christ: “God has given us eternal life, and this life is in his Son. He who has the Son has the life; he who does not have the Son of God does not have the life. I write these things to you who believe in the name of the Son of God so that you may know that you have eternal life” (1 John 5:11-13)

If you have not asked Jesus into your lifeYou can receive Jesus Christ right now by faith through prayer.

Prayer is just talking with God. He knows your heart, so don’t worry about getting your words just right. Here is a suggested prayer to guide you:

Lord Jesus, I want to know you personally. Thank you for dying on the cross for my sins. I open the door of my life and receive you as my Saviour and Lord. Thank you for forgiving me of my sins and giving me eternal life. Take control of my life. Make me the kind of person You want me to be.

If you have done this, congratulations! (Luke 15:7) says that when one sinner accepts Jesus Christ as his or her Saviour the angels rejoice. So there’s a party going on in heaven right now over your decision! Remember this date as your “second birthday,” the day you were born into a new life in Christ! You have God’s Word that he answered your prayer.

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Rob Lavallee

Scriptural Seeds Ministries

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March 18th 2020 – Undeserved Priviledge

“It is this Good News that saves you if you continue to believe the message I told you-unless, of course, you believed something that was never true in the first place.” (1 Corinthians 15:2)

I cannot picture a more beautiful thing than the Gospel of Jesus Christ. Fallen humanity stands before God covered in filthy garments stained with sins. We desperately try to wipe off each stain but in the process, we only make it worse. All hope seems lost until the God of all creation, in the perfect act of love, comes down among us. He removes our filthy sin stained garments and they are nailed to the cross… along with Himself. We didn’t deserve it. We didn’t do anything to earn it. It was simply the act of a loving God.

“Therefore, since we have been made right in God’s sight by faith, we have peace with God because of what Jesus Christ our Lord has done for us. Because of our faith, Christ has brought us into this place of undeserved privilege where we now stand, and we confidently and joyfully look forward to sharing God’s glory.” (Romans 5:1-2)

Now if we believe in what Jesus did and stand in faith, we can be granted forgiveness and everlasting life. This undeserved privilege is given by grace from a God who desires that none should ever perish. Even as we walk this life with Christ, we will stumble and fall, but we can confidently stand back up understanding that His grace covers all our sins. Are you in this place of undeserved privilege? If so, then rejoice in Christ and share Him with others. If not, then come to Him now and find rest for your soul.

“We receive forgiveness only by grace. We stand or continue in our faith only by grace.”

Prayer:

Heavenly Father, I know that I have sinned, and I thank You for the forgiveness offered through Jesus. Because of Your grace, I am able to live in a place of undeserved privilege. Thank You for the assurance that my sins are forgiven once I confessed them to you in repentance. Help me understand and recognize when I do sin sin. Draw me close to You for forgiveness and strenght from those areas of my life. Grow my desire to share Your love, Your forgiveness with others. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

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Rob Lavallee

Scriptural Seeds Ministries

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February 20th 2020 – Dear Dad

“Yes, I have loved you with an everlasting love; therefore with loving kindness I have drawn you.” (Jeremiah 31:3)

Dear Dad,

Please make my heart long for your words more than anything else. Open my eyes so I can see amazing things in the Bible. Unify my heart in fearing you and only you. Satisfy me with your unfailing love.

I ask that all people, including me, would honor you and uphold your reputation by both our words and our actions.
I ask that your sovereignty would become tangible and evident in people and nature around the world.
And I ask that today, and each day forward my actions and leadership of my family would align with your plans for my life.
I want to please you.

I’m needy, spiritually, physically, emotionally, and mentally; please give me everything I need for today. When I stumble and sin, please forgive me. May I forgive others and show them grace as you do for me. Don’t put me on the path of temptation, because I’m not very good at resisting it. Please rescue me from the evil one.

And now, I’m going to be happy because of everything you have done for me! I’ve cried for help so many times, and you always comfort me and save me through the hardest times. I want to trust you more and more with everything. You paid the ransom for my life; I’m yours now. And you are mine too! I pray that You won’t hold yourself back from me, and that I get to know you more and more each day.

How is it that you show me so much attention when I’m so small? I’m overwhelmed by how a God so powerful and famous shows so obviously that he cares about me and my life. Thank you for always being with me! Thank you that I don’t have to be ashamed of myself

Thank you for my beautiful spouse, thank you for my children, my parents, my good friends and the special ones that you have led into my life to help guide and teach me in your ways.

I LOVE YOU.

Sincerely your son.

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Obviously that was a prayer of mine today, dont let this opportunity pass to give thanks for the people and the circumstances that God has had His hand on. Take a moment to let your loved ones know how much you love them, forgive them for any hurts that may have caused you, ask forgiveness for anything you may have done to hurt them. Please don’t wait another day, don’t wait until later, do it now. You never know when they will leave this earth and you won’t have the opportunity to do so. I lost my father when I was 22, I was unsaved and there is so much I wish I could say now.

May the Spirt of God overwhelm you today, and may God bless you.

Prayer:

Heavenly Father, I praise You for the amazing love You have shown me. Thank you for the people that you have brought into my life that exhibit the love of Christ as well. Help me to grasp this love so that I will be able to love others in the same way. Strip me of any excuses and use me to reach others with the love of Jesus. In Your glorious and precious name, Amen.

Reach out to God and ask Him to show you His fatherly love, you will not be disappointed. Remember, He is all He says He is!

Jesus died on the cross for you and me. He loves us and wants to help us. If you have not asked Jesus to be your Lord and Savior please click here 4 Simple Steps to Jesus it’s the greatest decision you will ever make.

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Rob Lavallee

Scriptural Seeds Ministries

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February 8th 2020 – God’s Love is Eternal and Never Fails

“Love never fails. But whether there are prophecies, they will fail; whether there are tongues, they will cease; whether there is knowledge, it will vanish away.” (1 Corinthians 13:8)

Have you ever thought about love in the light of eternity? One day all that we know here on earth will be changed. When Christ appears in all His glory, heaven will come to earth and our lives, homes, bodies and relationships will change forever. Yet, there is one thing that will never change. That thing is love. When we see Christ face to face, we will no longer need faith. As we glimpse the realities of heaven all around us, we will no longer cling to hope of a better day. But love will never disappear. The love that created the world and gave life to humanity will still sustain the saints in heaven. The love that walked out of heaven and went to the cross is the same love that prepared a place for us for all eternity. And, the same love that strengthens us in this life is the same love that welcomes us into the next. This love never fails, never wavers and never grows weary. This love is the love of God.

“We love Him because He first loved us.” (1 John 4:19)

Because this love will always remain, let us begin loving even now. We will spend eternity with our brothers and sisters in Christ, so why not love them now? As we love each other with the love given to us through Christ, the world will see it and desire the same. When they do, we can point them to the never-ending source of love, Jesus.

“Love releases the power of the Spirit in our lives and in our churches.”

Prayer:

Heavenly Father, Thank You for the love You have shown me. Help me to love others in the same way You have loved me. Use me today to share the love of God with someone I see. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Experience a friend like no other. If you do not know Him personally, I encourage you not to pass up the precious gift of His love and eternal life. Jesus died on the cross for you and me. Jesus loves us and wants to help us through the storms. If you have not asked Jesus to be your Lord and Savior please click here 4 Simple Steps to Jesus

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Scriptural Seeds Ministries

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January 23rd 2020 – We Should Examine Ourselves

“But let a man examine himself, and so let him eat of the bread and drink of the cup.” (1 Corinthians 11:28)

Have you ever met a Christian that believes they have the gift to identify sin in peoples lives or flawed doctrine in churches. I have yet to find it listed in scripture that this is actually a gift. Also I have yet to find the perfect church. The likely cause is that people are inperfect.

Although there are times to lovingly correct a brother or sister or even false teachings within a church, we should not be quick to condemn. Before we begin pointing our finger at someone else’s problems, we need to first examine ourselves.

“Hypocrite! First remove the plank from your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.” (Matthew 7:5)

In Scripture, Jesus draws an absurd but poignant picture of someone with a giant beam of wood in their eye striving to remove a speck of dust from their friend’s eye. As we sit back and laugh at the imagery, the truth remains. Often, we believe we can ignore the sin in our life all the while condemning those who may be sinning in the same way. This leads to a life of hypocrisy and self deception. Instead, we should examine our own hearts and seek God for forgiveness. As we find freedom from our struggles, we will be fully equipped to care for our friends who need help removing the dust from their eye.

“We should examine ourselves, not others for problems.”

Prayer:

Heavenly Father, Thank You for Your forgiveness and grace. Help me to examine myself every day through Your Word and Your Spirit. Continue to shape me more into the image of Your Son so that I may help others. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

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Rob Lavallee

Scriptural Seeds Ministries

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